Day 39
Today was a tough day. Work went smoothly and I spent a bit of time looking over my Murder Mystery packet and trying to figure out what I needed to know for the big day. I'm confident in saying it's definitley going to be the best Birthday party...I'm pretty sure it's even going to top my 25th.
I'm sort of caught in the middle of a battle between my boyfriend and his ex-wife. It's very frustrating, but I understand that it's part of dating a divorce with kids. I love him so much that when he's super stressed out it's stressing me out. Sick, I know, ugh Ariel you're such a freaking sap! LOL. But still, on my way home I was saying a prayer that I would be able to help him figure these things out, and suddenly my phone rang. It was my amazing friend Sara who I haven't heard from in so long. She gave me some insight since she too is in a relationship with a man that has an ex that will forever be a part of their lives. It really helped. I think God heard my prayer and knew how much I needed to have someone understanding to talk to that knows what this is like and he prompted my dear friend to call me. She made me feel so much better and I am so thankful for her. I can't wait until she has her baby so we can start hanging out again...I miss her so much.
I worked out when I got home and then spent a great deal of time on the phone with my brother. I gave him Nate's number and they talked for a little while and I think it really helped them both. My brother said he'd told Nate that they should talk more often because he doesn't really have any guy friends...I think that's really great. It's pretty awesome dating a guy who's known your family since you were just a little kid, it makes it so much easier because they already know and like him and they already get along. I love his family to death and I always feel so much love from them when I'm over there. My family is a little more wary of him, well my parents are, because he's been married and divorced but I think that's just parents being parents. I know that no matter what happens with our relationship that we will always be friends and that I can always know that his family will still love me...well unless I turn into a psycho hose beast but that's not likely to ever happen :-)
I'm sort of caught in the middle of a battle between my boyfriend and his ex-wife. It's very frustrating, but I understand that it's part of dating a divorce with kids. I love him so much that when he's super stressed out it's stressing me out. Sick, I know, ugh Ariel you're such a freaking sap! LOL. But still, on my way home I was saying a prayer that I would be able to help him figure these things out, and suddenly my phone rang. It was my amazing friend Sara who I haven't heard from in so long. She gave me some insight since she too is in a relationship with a man that has an ex that will forever be a part of their lives. It really helped. I think God heard my prayer and knew how much I needed to have someone understanding to talk to that knows what this is like and he prompted my dear friend to call me. She made me feel so much better and I am so thankful for her. I can't wait until she has her baby so we can start hanging out again...I miss her so much.
I worked out when I got home and then spent a great deal of time on the phone with my brother. I gave him Nate's number and they talked for a little while and I think it really helped them both. My brother said he'd told Nate that they should talk more often because he doesn't really have any guy friends...I think that's really great. It's pretty awesome dating a guy who's known your family since you were just a little kid, it makes it so much easier because they already know and like him and they already get along. I love his family to death and I always feel so much love from them when I'm over there. My family is a little more wary of him, well my parents are, because he's been married and divorced but I think that's just parents being parents. I know that no matter what happens with our relationship that we will always be friends and that I can always know that his family will still love me...well unless I turn into a psycho hose beast but that's not likely to ever happen :-)
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